ok really my mom was a huge help! we worked on it sunday afternoon!
i used the directions from once wed (posted below)
they were very helpful for ideas and then my mom and i did what worked for us!
it def takes more than one person- you need a second set of eyes to make sure the fitting is right with the flowers and the netting. i didnt take any pics and left it at parents house so the view of will have to wait but i must say it's FABULOUS!
i love it! and the FI thought it was great- yes i showed him! i get so excited with my craft projects i always have to show him! i cant wait to wear it!